A quick look at me

 

Move quickly through the following list of traits. Put a “Y” (for yes) beside those that fit how you see your­self now. Use an "N" (for no) to mark those that do not fit. Use a question mark (?) to indicate the ones that you're unsure about.

 

 

I like myself

 

I have not developed my talents

 

I don't like to be around people

 

I don't understand myself

 

I enjoy school

 

I put up a good front

 

People can trust me

 

I use my talents in a good way

 

I am involved in extracurricular activities  

 

I use time well

 

I feel hemmed in

 

I feel bad about myself

 

I usually say the right thing

 

I control mvself

 

I don't enjoy school

 

I trust myself

 

I enjoy life

 

I waste time

 

I am fearful of the future

 

I enjoy nature

 

I am dependent on others for ideas

 

I enjoy people

 

I usually say the wrong thing

 

I often do the wrong thing

 

I think for myself

 

I don't like mvself

 

I have trouble controlling myself

 

I get discouraged about life

 

I know my feelings

 

I am afraid of being hurt by others

 

Now look at the traits you have marked and answer the three questions listed below.

Is there a pattern? How many Y’s, N's, and question marks?

 

Y________   N________     ?________

 

 Are most of them winner's traits, loser's traits or a mixture? How many winner's? How many loser's?

 

Y         Winners________   Losers________

N         Winners________   Losers________

?          Winners________   Losers________

 

What traits would you like to change?

 

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D. What steps will you take to change these traits?

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